About dreams

I am seeing weird dreams now a days, may be it is a way to face my fear which is rooted deep inside me? May be..

one of the dream was I am being black mailed by someone for a video/pic of me in a compromised position. (This happend after I started drawing nude pictures )

another was a big scale dream where I am in bangalore, and the city is attacked by man eating crabs, and red color blood every where,and I have to flee to majestic to catch a bus to kerala, and slowly these man eating crabs are killing people everywhere and reaching near my home and I am finding a solution to stop it attacking us.

I have some explanation to myself why i would have seen these dreams, and its a way of convincing me to be out of some inner fear I have.

What is life like a single lady in Bangalore?


Bangalore is a heaven if you have good friends around,if you are earning enough to rent a house and stay and have your own privacy,hell especially if you don't have good friends here or you are very introvert in nature.

I have seen this both sides...felt Bangalore is hell in my initial years here..and then felt wow it is such an amazing city to live.

Coming to the point how life is for a single lady in Bangalore.As I  said already if you a single lady not ready to mingle life goes with out much fun.It goes as same boring,missing all the good friends you had in college/schools..work engulfing you than anything..and finally hating this place..

If you are single and ready to mingle both with gals an guys Bangalore has so much fun in store for you.  But there are dangers associated with mingling with guys also..which you need to tactically handle.

Single ladies/gals has to be careful about the guys you meet here..You have to be choosy when it comes to guys ,because you never know their motives..better know about a guys before making friends with them..better make your gal friends friends /some friends friend as your friend..never go and make friends with strangers..which can cause lots of trouble to you in future..

When it comes to guys group in your work place,you have to be careful in making friends with them..its better to have a professional relationship with the co workers..but you can make good gal friends from your work place..

Gal friends are better to be chosen with the kind of wave length you share..choose the similar wavelength people ,you will definitely enjoy their company.

Bangalore is a city where night life is possible..so hanging out with friends on weekend is so much fun!,Always do it with a group of people ,not with a single person when it comes to guys..

Another fun activities can be shopping,eating out etc..there are lots of fine dining restaurants and different cuisine restaurants in Bangalore...I am a big fan of good food,I have tried out almost all the good restaurants in this city.

For those who have patience another fun activity is going shopping..from all the kinds of malls to the places like jayanar,commercial streets,brigade road,avenue road in majestic etc are some shopping places available in bangalore..some places like shivagi nagar and chikpet in majestic where saris and dress materials are available in take away prices..If you are looking for branded cloths then you can go to malls like forum,bangalore central,brand factory,total mall,gopalan malls etc and shop from west side,pantaloons,IBIBA etc..

Also seasonal sales are also happening in all of these malls,I always buy cloths during seasonal sales.

Cinemas are other options to enjoy free time in Bangalore,all the kinds of cinemas like english,hindi,kannada,malayalam,telugu and tamil are showing in theaters.now the cinema theaters are moved to multiplexes and malls,like innovative multiplexes,PVR cinemas in forum,gopalan cinemas,Inox cinemas etc are to name a few.

Transition from bangalore to singapore

So much happend since 2013.. Life changed drastically, I moved from bangalore to the garden city of singapore in 2014 december, Got married to the man I loved(or loved me), had a child who is 3.5 years old now.

Was working in Singapore very hard since 2014 to 2017, during my pregnancy,after delivery etc. Worked day and night until it came to a point I could not take it any more and my health started deteriorating.

For me work was always like worship, not for money, the money it bought along was never a matter to me, until recently I started thinking again as independently about the wishes I have in long run.

I feel expert in my field of work and find myself thinking what is next..

Singapore life have been busy with baby, going through lot of shits at family front, understanding and adjusting with people I had lived with, adjusting with people at work front, managing tantrums of people at work and home, helper, family etc.


In all these mess one day I found solace in meditation, which kept me sane and grounded.Helped me to go through all these in one piece..through meditation I found yoga, the beauty of it... started to look inside...started practicing it..

Through yoga and meditation I found my real interest, I found visions for the future.. I found meaning in what I do.

I started composting at home, read extensively, gone through the surgery of my dad, felt broken and gathered back the strength little by little.

Supported my family emotionally... and financially for that I am very proud..


Now its time, I feel to take next step in life.. I can feel the step is very near...